I'm a security researcher and freelance adventurer. I think kindness, warmth, and understanding are highly underrated.
That’s the key realisation. When you’re asked “what have you tried?”, it doesn’t mean “show me the code you’ve written, or piss off”. What you have to do is at least try to help yourself – and the trying is the important thing. -- Matt Gemmell, http://whathaveyoutried.com